Read on as Sue pieces the letters together to tell the story of Jack and Marie.
| We believe Jack is the man in uniform, and Marie is the woman to his right |
Introducing Jack and Marie
| The Lupset Estate in the 1930s - photo copyright of Wakefield Libraries |
Their married bliss was soon interrupted by the outbreak of war. In May 1941 Jack was called up. He trained in North Wales and was posted to the Middle East.
Jack was homesick and missed Marie very much. He wrote to her every weekend, sometimes more often. Marie kept his letters.
In 2016 Wakefield Museums and Castles purchased a collection of over 40 letters written between 1941 and 1943.
Jack's letters
Like all wartime letters, Jack's were censored. They contained little information about locations and manoeuvres in case they fell into enemy hands.On the first anniversary of his call up he wrote a moving description of the morning he left her, echoing the experiences of many a conscript:
"It tells me that almost twelve months ago, months of pain suspence [sic] and darkness, I had the utter misfortune to be ripped from the arms of a girl in a million."Jack’s letters contain fascinating snippets about his life in the army.
Life in the army
In August 1941, soon after arriving in the Middle East, Jack was injured in an accident. He broke his toe, which failed to mend properly causing him to limp slightly. Because of this he was rated ‘unfit to serve’ at the front, where he would have earned promotion. Instead, he had to settle for a more mundane (but much safer) post behind the lines.Jack was assigned to duties in the stores, collecting, stocking and distributing uniforms, ammunition, and other equipment. He also opened and ran a canteen which also acted as a shop.
"Don't think that life in the service is a cure for monotony, because frankly I didn't think it was possible to bump into so much boredom."
- They were required to thoroughly spring clean their billet each week, making a special effort before a visit by a VIP;
- One time they were marched to the beach for a 'dip in the ocean' at 6 in the morning
- They were sent without notice on a long journey on Boxing Day 1942, hangovers notwithstanding;
- Another time, Jack was left to mind the stores for 3 days and nights, with a long to-do list, while the Quartermaster was away.
Looking after family - from afar
Jack would have dearly loved to go home on leave."I am making an all out, all in bid to locate our Harry, whom you will know by now, that he is only about 50 miles from here.
He told me in his last letter that he could fix me up with a bed and some food so in that line I have nothing to fear, the biggest proposition being, getting there, it will mean hitch hiking, as there is no bus service."Jack was sending part of his army pay home to Marie to support her.
The Middle East
Jack generally did not enjoy his living conditions in the Middle East.Despite this, he clearly appreciated being billeted next to the “beautiful blue Mediterranean [Sea]”.
"As I look to my right I have in front of me the Mediterranean Sea looking dark, oily, and full of mystery. What a great change this sea provides, it was yesterday that a few of us boys, remarked how beautiful this sea looked.
The sun was beating down onto the almost stagnant surface, transforming into a bed of myriad coloured diamonds..."
After the first year Jack started taking Arabic lessons and could chat with the boys in town.
Marie's story - back home in Wakefield
Jack comments frequently in reply to the news Marie sends to him. Through this we can learn about Marie’s life in wartime Wakefield.By winter 1942 she was unfortunately in poor health and struggling financially. She moves back in with her parents for a spell. She lost her job, but in February 1943 she got a new job at Clayton Hospital.
Marie also took in lodgers, including a family from London with whom she became very friendly.
She was good friends with her neighbours on either side, Mary and Vi, and a photo found with the letters show a group of 4 girls on a day out at the seaside:
| Marie (we think she's second from the left) with her friends at the seaside |
From the letters we also get glimpses of their life together before the war. Jack worked as a painter and decorator, like Marie’s brother Harold.
Until January 1943 Marie was working at Webster Bros. This may have been in the grocery store on the corner of Cheapside and Westgate, which had a pie shop above, or possibly in the café in Cross Square.
"I don't know of this body who claims, is doing his bit with zest and zeal, got you to believe that you would have to go into the service, but I find the word W.A.A.F.S mentioned. Now sweet, I don't know of this man, who clapped his hands when he saw you, and who thought "another victim" "In reality, Marie seems very resilient. Like many women, she took advantage of the opportunity the war presented to assert some independence. She went out to work despite some reservations from Jack.
Jack was particularly keen to hear news about what family and friends were up to.
"It's a bad show Marie, I don't know, life in the service seems to have an uncanny way of pulling a chap down like this..."
After the war
Thankfully for this story, there was a happy ending.They stayed together and grew old together.



























